DIckhead Returns

At about 1215am this morning, while I was out with Mel, the Dickhead terrorised me again. He called and asked me for my grade in a very unpolite manner. I was disturbed when he started raising his voice at me over the phone. He got a "B" and he felt he should get a better grade. So, he claimed that he wanted to know my grade to have a better gauge of his standing in our DIP group. I did not tell him mine but I heard from him that he actually called Chan up and upon realising that his good buddy got a "B+" (which according to him, his good buddy was expecting a "A-"), he was rather unstable and started to get pissed off. He began blaming the system, Elvis and every other thing you can think of.

I think it's abit crazy to go around asking people their grades and I suppose he is not in his right of mind to do that. There is NO NEED to compare and start to think that you are better off than anyone in this group. In my opinion, the only reason you should appeal is that you really feel that you deserve a better grade; not because there are people whom you think should have gotten the same grade as you. In other words, who are we to judge one another? To me, it's just the pot calling the kettle black.

I felt more like I am a punching bag to him rather than a "student leader" (that's what dickhead call me today). Sigh.. I guess he can continue to be angry and pissed over his DIP grade which is only 3 AUs. The Earth never stop revolving and before he knew it, all of us would have moved on and were enjoying the fruits of our labour.

The winners in life think constantly in terms of "I can, I will, I am". Losers, on the other hand, concentrate their waking thoughts on what they should have done or on what they don't do.

Denis Waitley